Let me give you the answers to the frequently asked questions that I get. I'm 6'2" 200lbs. My cock is 8" long and 7" around (Cut) I can never host. I'm married and have s. No, My wife doesn't play. She's asexual. That's why I have permission to have FWBs I don't like hookups. I only meet people I know at least through email or chat. If you're cheating on your spouse I'm unlikely to have sex with you. Cheating drama sucks. Look, I sympathize if you're not getting enough at home and am happy to be a friend because I can relate. If sex is the only thing on your mind, I'm unlikely to be interested. I much prefer a FWB situation. A full-blown relationship is probably unlikely. I've tried that a few times and it has not worked out so far. If you are more than 30 miles away from me, I'm not going to drive to meet you. I'm unlikely to be interested in anything more than chat with someone + or - 10 years of my age. I don't do anything illegal... so no car sex or 420 etc... I'm into voyeurism and exhibitionism. (Webcamming, pic trading or in per), teasing, groups, ageplay 18+ and swinging. I enjoy strip clubs and swing clubs. I'm not a top/bottom or vers. I'm not into anal. I'm neither a dom nor a sub, but have enjoyed cuckold roleplay. I accept most other people's kinks. If you're into something I'm not, that's cool. (Exceptions, if you send me pictures or ask me to fuck your drugged wife, I'll try to get you banned or arrested. Keep that crap away from me.) I don't give out my phone number unless I know and trust you with it. Regarding webcamming I ignore direction. I don't show my face. Hot chat isn't going to make me cum faster. Pictures and C2C will. If my sound is off, my s are home and I can't turn it on. I'm a normal, middle-aged guy who just happens to be in a non-traditional marriage. I'm lucky that my wife lets me have FWB and will not do anything to compromise that situation. (Like getting arrested, getting an STD or bringing drama home) I love the idea of having friends with no "upper" limit, so that if sex happens, that's cool. I'd love to be in a friendly swing group.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: My ideal person is a sane, friendly person, who doesn't have a hangup about friends getting sexual. Someone who isn't overly pushy or aggressive. Above all, you must be someone who will respect my boundaries and my situation. Bonus points if you are into swinging/groups, aren't cheating and value friendship as well as sex.