***August 2015 update - I now have an amazing lover who I spend a lot of time with. Would be great to find a woman who would like to have fun with us. She is a fit 50 year old, with a killer body and a high sex drive. Let me know if you want to join us and we can all have a drink and see if there is a mutual attraction.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: I've been fortunate to have had many interesting sexual experiences and always keep my mind open to any and all possibilities. Put another way, I'm not shy about getting in there and mixing it up, no one lives life fully if they live it on the sidelines. Guess that's my love of sports and the related cliches coming out, lol.

My best relationships have been ongoing fwb situations with a woman but I am open to the same with two women or a couple.

In any situation the person or persons need to understand that I am attached and as such I have limited time to play and cannot host. If you are not comfortable with that arrangement I understand fully and at least we know where we stand. If you are up for it I know we can have fun.

In terms of the relationship itself it starts with respect for what everyone wants, if you're not happy in something whats the point in continuing? Like many people on this site I am happy with my life as is, this is just a means by which I add some excitement. Let's work on that together.