Friendship First! :) Life is too short for superficial crap. I like to see myself as an adventurer, one without boundaries. I am fairly well settled, successful, content - but my contentment is in my ability to change and challenge myself. I want to meet similar minded people. I am sexual, a sapiosexual,married guy looking for a woman that wants to appreciated for more than her body. I am interested in sensual women who are spiritual, intelligent and creative, and who love conversation. I look to be friends first before any play, but play is very important too. :) I discovered long ago that I need to be connected before I can enjoy sex with my partner. And I am still friends with my lovers. someone who just refuses to take himself too seriously. I enjoy getting to know people, and hate drama - and I play no mind games either. I enjoy written and visual erotica, masturbation and cybering - and more. :) I am a IT geek and a writer.

Mijn Ideale Persoon: People I get along with are real people. I don't care what shape, size or color, as long as you know what real means.

BTW, I am really good with people who are shy or not sure of online communication!

Bubbly, sexy, and communicative. I love women who are spiritual and creative (writing, photography, art, etc)