While I enjoy sex and don't need to be friends after playing with a man, couple or woman, although I would welcome it, I do find my playtime to be so much more enjoyable when there is a connection or mental stimulation beforehand. Spending time with someone and chatting across the table creates tension and excitement and allows the depth of perality to develop. This is what I am looking for. I am not into long discussions online, but if the encounter here on AFF sparks interest, lets meet and see if that continues and if that works...lets play. Other points of interest about me... 1. I move at my own speed. If you outstep that speed I'm likely to lose interest. 2. Along the lines of speed...do not tell me what to do sexually. I recently shared a couple. The male in the other couple was very directive. I don't like it as it makes it impossible for me to set the tone, find my sexual side and ultimately become sexually stimulated. I cannot help it...I am a woman and while I love sex my mind takes time to reach its sensual side. 3. At the center of all play I believe we should be laughing and smiling. Sexual play is fun and I enjoy the smiles. I have a boyfriend that I love beyond any measure I thought possible, and we are open. He is my rock. He grounds me in all ways, despite my strong will, and he is certainly at the center of my sexual exploration. Recently I explored my desire for women and I am hungry for more. Love the soft female skin, lips and the curves of her body! So much fun to not just hear the moans of a woman but to know that I am creating them while exploring her. I want more, and in a way that is very new and somewhat alarming to me!

Mijn Ideale Persoon: I don't have an ideal person but I believe that in the above paragraphs I have described the ideal scenario, whether it be with a man, couple or woman.

Regarding Men: I am looking for a few men to have an occasional mmf threesome. I won't lie...I am and will be very selective in choosing said man. Having a smiling profile pic goes a long way toward my responding to or reaching out to another man. We women get a lot of junk mail (and I mean that in all definitions of junk) from men. Having a smile that says you are far more than a dick, which 80% of the men use as their main picture, goes a long way toward me being interested in you. After that I would say that I enjoy men who:

1. Smile and play both inside the bedroom and out.
2. Are witty and enjoy conversation on whatever topics interest them. I don't have to like your hobby or main pursuit in life to enjoy hearing and learning about it.
3. Men who understand I am a control freak. Let me set the pace...and we are likely to make it past the dinner table to bed. Its okay to pursue, just don't run over me trying to get what you want.
4. Don't make the mistake that because we are on a sex site we can just forget interacting as normal adults, and instead begin discussing all things sex. Its not normal and it is not becoming. I dare say it rarely works, and yet it seems that many go down this road.

Regarding Couples:

I am looking for couples who would enjoy playing with me and my love. As I have said, we are open and very secure. In fact, we are strengthened and empowered by each other's precence during sex, even with another couple or man/woman. We don't need perfect bodies. We enjoy getting to know another couple and pursuing the fun from there. Yes, I would entertain playing with another couple alone but it is not my first choice and I would want the other things I have mentioned above to be of high regard if I did consider it.

Regarding Woman:

Exploring women is all new to me. I had no idea how attracted I was or how much I would enjoy it until I recently played with one. I do believe I would like it best with my boyfriend, even if he only watches, but I don't think it is a point I would insist upon. I don't have a lot of ideas as to what I like or don't like with a woman as this is all new to me, but I am fairly certain that I require a slow pace and not being dominated or directed.

Engage my mind and we can go from there...and then from time to time we can enjoy adult fun when all of our schedules allow.

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