Help others make a real connection with you, and you'll get more responses! Here are some ideas to get you started: Most of my friends would say I have a shy/ personality. When it comes to physical health, I exercise about 2-3 times per week I like the bar scene. I prefer (lots of partying when I'm involved in sexual encounters. I like my partners to (tell me what to do/follow my lead) in the bedroom. I love sex, but I'm more interested in (short-term relationships/long-term relationships/marriage). In the bedroom, I tend to like (traditional, straight forward/kinky, experimental/other) sex. Some of my favorite positions are... I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another (man/woman) in the room. One-on-one sex doesn't interest me much. I prefer (threesomes/swapping/orgies/other). I'm (seldom/always) willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds.