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Teaching - 29-07-2018
Taming, molding, teaching Yours something (new) to be
done to Your liking. How important does being realistic
in timing, outcome, n expectations matter? Have You ever pushed/ been pushed to be molded
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Attention - 29-07-2018
How much attention do you require as a submissive, or do
you feel neglected if you don't get as much attention
as you want? What happens if you don't get "enough?"
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Inspection - 12-07-2018
How many of us in the lifestyle do inspections on our submissive
or partner... Is inspection part of your dynamic? Is it something that
occurs regularly at set times? Or does it occur occasionally?
If
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Relationship issues - 30-06-2018
How do dynamics get out of the “ruts” of a relationship?
Where everything feels like it’s falling apart....let’s
see who can be honest on here or full of it
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Relationship issues - 30-06-2018
How do dynamics get out of the “ruts” of a relationship?
Where everything feels like it’s falling apart....let’s
see who can be honest on here or full of it
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BDSM lifestyle - 26-06-2018
Is BDSM lifestyle subjective? Are there criterias to meet
within this lifestyle in order to meet the standard? Please
tell me why or why not, support Y/your answer.
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Role play - 25-06-2018
For those of you that are looking for daddy’s or use the
role play. Littles: Are you always in little mindset, or
does it come and go? What triggers it? How do you deal with punishment when in littl
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Part time kinks - 23-06-2018
 For those in a bedroom only dynamic, do Y/you carry any protocols
outside of the bedroom at all or does it stop once the bedroom
doors are open?
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Tickle torture - 23-06-2018
Tickle Torture can be playful, erotic, or downright cruel.
I like it to be a combination of the three <br><br>
How do you feel about it? ...
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Sex - 12-04-2018
How important is sex in your dynamic? Very important, not
so much. Can your dynamic survive without? ...
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Judgements - 11-04-2018
Who is more subject to scrutiny and judgement in the vanilla
community here on Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez or the BDSM or taboos ? Why judge others
when you are here hiding doing the same thing with your nose
up and blinders
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Cutting - 09-04-2018
This is a touchy topic: cutting as a partner. I saw A person
today that her way of coping and dealing with life is to cut
on herself and taking control. It made me very sad that people
do not have t
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Stay or go - 09-04-2018
I’m gonna poke the bear with a touchy issue. See how many
people can be honest or if I will get the normal jack ass responses.
when you are in an online dynamic and your Partner gets sick,
not deat
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Stay or go - 09-04-2018
I’m gonna poke the bear with a touchy issue. See how many
people can be honest or if I will get the normal jack ass responses.
when you are in an online dynamic and your Partner gets sick,
not deat
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Neediness and sex play - 05-04-2018
  Nerdiness and sex play do you dress up and pretend to be a
super hero or play the victim that needs to be rescued? <br><br>
Do these things go hand-in-hand? A
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Throat fucking - 01-04-2018
Throat fucking ... Ladies Do you enjoy this or is this something your still
easing yourself into? I've heard some say its a certain
positions you need to be in to really get the effects of this.
G
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Sex swings - 27-03-2018
Sex swings how many people really use them and do you enjoy
them and what type? Have you tried it ? Pros and cons ?
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Edging - 25-03-2018
For those who like edging and orgasm denial. For how long are you are denying yourself/ be denied? What was the longest time you denied yourself/was denied? ...
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End of a relationship - 22-03-2018
This sad and painful circumstance of relationship is part
of our lives and it happens even when don’t mean to or want
to is when no longer connect to one another! Is there a right
way or wrong way
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End of a relationship - 22-03-2018
This sad and painful circumstance of relationship is part
of our lives and it happens even when don’t mean to or want
to is when no longer connect to one another! Is there a right
way or wrong way
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Marks from play - 21-03-2018
So how do you explain marks to your providers (gyno, gp,
chiropractors, massage therapist, etc)? Do you not try
and explain and just let them think what they want? Do they
care, or have they seen it
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Ghosting - 21-03-2018
This was a interesting conversation that seems to be happening
more and more which is ghosting.. For those who do not know what the term isGhosting. Walking away without letting the other person(s) k
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Angry or upset - 13-03-2018
As normal I guess I’m gonna poke the bears...that spread
the hate.. When angry or upset, how do you communicate still? Let the
other know you are angry? Do you wait until you have control
over yo
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Humiliation - 13-03-2018
Humiliation/degraded!!! Who likes it or would like it if there Partner humiliated/degraded
them, while either in the bedroom, in public, or around
the house. If so, what are some of the ways that you
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Humiliation - 13-03-2018
Humiliation/degraded!!! Who likes it or would like it if there Partner humiliated/degraded
them, while either in the bedroom, in public, or around
the house. If so, what are some of the ways that you
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Sensory deprivation - 12-03-2018
Sensory Deprivation and Suspension. Both are fairly common in ene . Which do you like better? Why?  ...
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Cock rings - 11-03-2018
How many guys actually wear them? Do you enjoy it? ladies how do you feel about them?
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Sub be dominant - 08-03-2018
 I know I am poking the bear again which I can do. Can a sub be
an alpha sub even if they are the only sub? What are your thoughts?
What is your definition of an alpha sub? I have see
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Switches - 06-03-2018
I'm going to poke a bear.. why? Because I can lol. 😃
I do not see a lot of people question it on here I have ran into
lots of them on here. <br><br>
Switches. A very polarizing to
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Orgasm - 06-03-2018
Have you ever cried after having an intense orgasm? The
flood of emotions (pun intended) but but it was the most
incredible thing I think a person can experience. I know
all the haters will have a na
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