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AnewWoman 65 V
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Grammar, lack of grammar, and culture - 04-02-2020

I am by far not the best with grammar these days, but other than this site dropping keywords occasionally, I would like to think I generally get my point across. We do seem to have our fair share of g

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
How to keep sexy lingerie out of the back of the lingerie drawer? - 18-08-2019

Every now and then I get in the mood for new lingerie and the recent post seeking lingerie sites got my mojo going. I have to think many women are like me and purchase or receive as a gift new lingeri

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
When to put politics aside - 06-07-2019

This morning on the IM here I had an interesting chat. Kind of wish I copied and saved the thing, but I will try my best to convey what was said.
This 51yr old single guy with a couples profile,

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? - 06-02-2019

I don't get it. Questions like those about the size of a cock. Or even using myself as an example because I happen to have a trans history. What drives you to be with people who have no interest i

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Buzzmode? - 17-01-2019

I've accumulated a lot of points here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez, so I decided to use a few and get myself one of those buzz toys. I think it was something like 75000 points, but saved me $70 by not having to purchas

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
So what do I do? - 16-09-2018

I think I've been on this site for something like 7 years now following my change of gender. Pretty well been there, done that, as I learned the ropes of online dating. And I have met some incredi

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Women, how did ED meds affect your partner? - 11-09-2018

ED meds obviously have their place and sales of the ED meds show many use them, but are the results what you hoped for?
<br><br> I know for certain one of my past partners used viagra

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Mixed up with someone else - 02-08-2018

Recently I have received a rash of emails here from men confusing me with someone else who I actually happen to know. I'm guessing they are part of the Craigs list crowd now on this site. This oth

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
"Dear" - 31-05-2018

The only place I ever hear the word "Dear" used anymore is here. It's just not that common around here. Sure you see it in business letter salutations, but for that matter, it is left ou

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Rejection replies, how much is enough - 23-04-2018

Probably one of my biggest faults is I try to be nice to everyone other than the worst of the worst. Being a woman on this site I inevitably write my share of rejection replies. one of the things I t

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Here Fido, Fido! - 21-02-2018

Darn dogs have a way of showing up everywhere these days. Just got to love them. But when it comes to seeing your partner, meeting, hooking up, however you want to term it, what are your thoughts abou

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Your exactly what i'm looking for - 19-01-2018

After one or two exchanges of hi, how are you, and are you keeping warm, someone 2000+ miles away messaged me to say he was thinking of moving here and how I was exactly what he was looking for. Isn&#

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Golf Clubs - 31-12-2017

I find the biggest turn off and quickest way to make me say not interested is for someone to have a picture of themselves playing golf. Nothing against the game, but I'm just turned off by those w

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Makes you wonder - 12-11-2017

In many ways I was different growing up. I didn't date until after high school, but had a pretty active sex life in the early years once married. Followed by ups and downs in a rather ho hum marri

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What is your rationale for the pics you do or don't post? - 10-10-2017

Looking through many of the A/L poster's profiles along with those who contact me and other who simply pique my curiosity, somewhere around half have a nude picture whether of just the genitals or

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
I like to have fun here, but... - 05-09-2017

I'm probably one of the handful here who openly says what I want with little or no concern to how my views conform to the consensus here. I would like to think even those who adamantly disagree wi

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Hairy or Shaved? - 04-09-2017

NO, NO, NO. This is not another do you like it hairy or shaved question.
<br><br> What I wonder about every time the question comes up is how many of these people actually meet others

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
That gut feeling that just won't go away - 14-08-2017

I ended up having a two fer kind of day today. Started off I had chatted with a gentleman last week and a lot Saturday morning and was going to actually meet with him for a midday meal today for our f

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Raunchy Sex? - 31-07-2017

While chatting earlier this evening I was asked on a scale of 1-10 where I was as far as kinky. Of course I had to say it depends on ones definition of kinky. He then told me he was into "raunchy sex

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What Are Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez Women Actually Delivering? - 25-07-2017

One of the last questions about men acting as if they are in heat got me thinking when another member responded to my answer where I suggested many of the men here are married and not getting enough a

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Deep Throat, is it just a visual thing or what? - 13-07-2017

I like giving the men I'm with bj's, and some I can manage deep throating. No real rhyme or reason on which ones I can and can't. I still have my tonsils so maybe that has something to do with it. I k

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What would you do for better grades? - 16-05-2017

I received an email this morning from a gentleman from out of the country. Although it was written to try to make it sound personal, I'm sure it was a mass mailing.
<br><br> I don

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Why must NSA mean discreet? - 18-04-2017

I'm calling bullshit on everyone wanting to be discreet and saying they are seeking NSA sex but are single. Maybe if you are a Catholic Priest or something, but otherwise I don't care if you are the

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
It's not all about sex? - 24-03-2017

I have a FWB who I see quite frequently and yesterday he said he would try and get by today. He has a general idea of my work schedule and today arrived a little late to do our thing before I had to h

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Are you letting your woman sleep? - 12-02-2017

I just read a great article about how getting a good nights sleep for women goes a long way towards better sex. As the article pointed out and many of the women here have said in the past, a lot of se

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What happens when you move a little to the left? - 02-02-2017

You can look at 100 pictures of vaginas and come away with 100 different ideas what it must feel like to have sex with each one, at least that is my thought on the subject.


My question i

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Why would a poster allow only friends? - 27-01-2017

I was scrolling through the advice lines recently and came across several questions where the poster was only allowing their friends to post. Seems odd to me, but whatever. I'm just curious why someon

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Points for replies, where else? - 19-01-2017

Another member was curious about how I amassed my points as quickly as I do. I told him lately most of my points are coming from replying to emails, which really surprised him. I seem to recall someti

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Are you seeking the unobtainable? - 31-12-2016

I had a nice email conversation with a gentleman here this morning. There was no reason to believe he was anything other than a decent person. However he said somethings I wonder if he realized he sai

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What do you do for stamina? - 28-12-2016

For starters I am not talking about how you hold off your orgasm as to allow your partner to enjoy one first. For that there have been umpteen million solutions pointed out from extended foreplay to n

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What do you think of older men? - 13-12-2016

This is what a 20 something year old told me when I told him I was only interested in others closer to my own age. "What girl doesn't want a hot guy but instead would rather have old wrinkly balls

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Oh That Burning Feeling - 12-12-2016

Dumb question number 609:

Do all women like having men cum on their face?

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Silly Questions about shaving and how you like your women - 22-11-2016

I figured we are close enough to Thanksgiving and the weekend that I can get away with throwing a question or two out there for discussion around the dinner table this Thursday.


I love a

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What are your white pants? - 18-10-2016

Whether you agree or like me or not I have to say for my age I have a pretty good body. There are plenty of women out there with far better bodies and probably are far better in bed than I am, but nev

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
How do you approach a bad boob job? - 26-08-2016

I was checking out the webcams earlier and the thumbnail screenshot of a woman who was camming caught my eye. As someone who has cammed at times, I have to say thumbnails are not always your friend. I

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Thoughts about husband writing wife's profile - 15-08-2016

I unexpectedly came across a strange profile while browsing this afternoon. Here was a local woman's profile with the "F" and everything, but the entire profile was openly written by her husband. Term

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
That squeaky bed - 13-08-2016

In another question here on the A/L I eluded to purchasing duck tape to fix my squeaky bed. My bed has both a metal headboard and footboard with a standard metal frame. I guess you can say as my bedro

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Do you talk nasty ??? - 09-08-2016

That was the first message I received from a man this evening. No Hi, no how are you, just Do you talk nasty??? Besides being taken aback with the message, I simply replied no I don't talk nasty. [b

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Breaking up is hard to do - 18-06-2016

Besides my recent divorce, a relationship I was in came to an end. The divorce was easier, I lost the emotional connection quite sometime ago, therefore I filed for divorce. The relationship was one I

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What do you do when you are too tired? - 06-06-2016

I work for a living like most people and my day starts pretty early. I do have the benefit of being able to schedule my workday, however most days including my days off I get up at the same time. To g

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Time for some real advice - 16-05-2016

Enough of the dirt bags, virgins, and pervs in the restrooms. I need some real advice.


I just finished off a pitcher of frozen margaritas while watching the Voice and answering emails he

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Are you a giver or taker? - 18-04-2016

I don't mean like pitcher or catcher in gay sex, but are you the one who focuses on making the one your with feel special. And by feel special, I don't mean it is all about orgasms either. Orgasm or n

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Glitter, take 2 - 14-12-2015

Otis' glitter question made me think of something I have come up against in the past. Whether glitter, nice perfume, or anything else noticeable, has anyone ever been asked by a partner not to wear an

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What can happen in 2 days? - 11-12-2015

A couple days ago I posted a question about sending messages too soon and included a screen pic which included my points and number of messages. One of my faithful followers who enjoys throwing a jab

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Hitting send too soon? - 09-12-2015

From time to time I get men sending a message expressing their interest, but once realizing either by reading my profile or me being upfront about having a transgender history, they apologize and say

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
When the man tells you .... - 03-12-2015

This is really a question for the women, however I'm sure men will have their own thoughts on this topic. So men feel free to chime in if you feel you can keep your foot out of .......


S

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Cock Logic - 30-11-2015

I realize using logic around this place is a real novelty, but the latest series of cock shot or not questions seriously got me thinking. Like maybe all of a minute or two. Lucky I didn't get a migrai

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
That hidden beauty - 17-11-2015

I think most everyone has seen a show, commercial, movie or something depicting an individual, usually a woman, who on first glance is pretty basic, only to see them change clothes, take off the glass

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Which game do you bring? - 17-11-2015

This could maybe be a poll question, but heck we can use a few more questions on the A/L as of lately.


Now let's get past the meeting in a public place for the first time and say you pas

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
When old faces show up at your door step - 09-11-2015

From my desk I can see the road out front and this afternoon I glanced up to see a service truck parked out front. Because I knew some work was going on, the presence of the truck wasn't unexpected. B

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Rude? Me? - 29-10-2015

I just had a crazy email exchange here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez with a gentleman that just got under my skin. He made the first contact with a sizable impersonal email describing how desirable he was to women, mind you

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Are you wishing it was you? - 27-10-2015

I recently read an article concerning relationships and one thing mentioned was online activity and how people tend to create an online profile of the ideal person they wish they were.


S

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What's up with all the instant gratification questions lately? - 26-10-2015

I'm sorry, but lately we are getting one question after another whining about others because the other person or people are looking for something other than the OP. Give me a break. Talk about being t

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Saying goodbye - 11-10-2015

Oh hell no I'm not going anywhere just yet, I love all of you too much. But in the last 24 hours I've done something I thought I never would. I said goodbye to two relationships. I'm hurting, relieved

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Does that nonsense actually work for you? - 08-10-2015

Considering I don't send initial emails, I don't know how the email system here works for sending out "bulk" emails. Maybe somebody can enlighten me in regards to this. But what I'm curious about is t

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Toys for old ladies - 03-10-2015

Okay so I decided I needed a new toy to celebrate my birthday. Talk about a tough decision. So I walk into the toy store and first take a gander at the lubes hoping to spot my favorite in some exotic

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Is there something out there which gives you a feeling equal to having an orgasm? - 15-09-2015

I was chatting to a seemingly nice gentleman earlier this evening. He initiated contact with a cordial Hello, how are you? With niceties out of the way we moved onto the "What are you doing?" Of cours

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Looking for love in all the wrong places - 09-09-2015

This is a real life question and for what it is worth, is about me.


Have you ever felt you cared about a friend so much you wanted to move the relationship forward or at a minimum make y

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Who's horny, or should I ask who isn't? - 01-09-2015

I know the women often have men telling them how horny they are, but did somebody put something in the water lately? It seems lately as if every email, every chat , the guy feels he needs to mention h

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Can Dream dates go bad? - 25-08-2015

I was talking with a couple earlier today (in person) and the topic of how difficult it is to find a good man came up. Now this could go the other way also, how difficult it is to find a good woman, b

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Could the numbers be right? - 18-08-2015

Unless you just woke up you probably have heard the news that the names of members of an adult site known for cheating were posted to the web today. Other than being an adult site it has nothing to do

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Does it help to script your meet in advance? - 13-08-2015

The last erotic story post here in the A/L got me thinking who in the heck remembers tiny details about a sexual encounter. I'm not talking about walking down the road and chatting with a neighbor, I'

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Ex abuse? - 03-08-2015

Many of the women here have probably received an email from the man in a couple's profile or possibly a man using a woman's profile.
This weekend I received an email while online here from what a

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
How would you respond to a crude comment? - 06-07-2015

Not just any crude comment, but one that in all likelihood was said with good intentions. Of course here we can ignore any message sent, but what if you were sitting face to face with this person? Wou

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
If you don't know it can't hurt you? - 02-07-2015

This is a question for all the do gooders here who are quick to jump all over married individuals seeking others, otherwise known as cheaters and homewreckers.


It is extremely common to

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Want to snoop, but? - 16-06-2015

I have a girlfriend I go out with at least once a week. Not that kind of girlfriend, strictly platonic. About a month ago I helped her setup a profile here promising not to look at what she has going

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
I thought I had seen it all, but now a new low - 08-05-2015

Oh my, hadn't ever had one of these emails before, but this one just sent shivers up my spine. So as to not identify the emailer let me just say he is less than half my age. Do the math, not too m

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Broken dicks - 22-04-2015

A recent profile photo got me thinking about broken dicks. I've seen shows on TV talk about it, and I've seen pics including the one here with severe bends in them. I have never personally came in con

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Step right up! No purchase necessary, lol. - 21-04-2015

Help, I don't know what the heck this guy wants. Today I received an email which simply had the letter "O" in it. I Googled "O" and internet slang tells me "O" means ounce (of drugs). Now I consume my

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
On a roll, why stop now? - 10-04-2015

Expanding on the recent A/L question regarding what changes users here would like to see, I would like to focus on "free" memberships. This post may set a record for most don't like votes, but those w

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Will you marry me? - 01-04-2015

No! I'm not looking for a husband, lol. I was watching a show on TV last night with young men talking about dating. They mentioned how you should run if a woman brings up the topic of marriage whi

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Seriously, a relationship? - 31-03-2015

There seems to be a lot of what do you call this or that lately. For the most part to each their own on definitions. My question is more based on what makes you think you are capable of being somethin

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
When is it time to go home? - 25-03-2015

I'm expecting there are many ideas on when it comes time to pack up your things and head homeward or to tell your partner it's time. Maybe there have been those times you have had someone overstay th

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What are you talking about? - 16-03-2015

Okay I must be a clueless idiot or something because every time I read a post or profile that states someone or another does not like it when a potential partner plays games with them, I'm left wonder

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Why so mad? - 28-02-2015

I had a very nice chat with a man from Colorado this morning. Being that I'm in Georgia there really was no expectation we would ever meet. We covered a wide range of topics, mostly about our lives, s

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Bundle up - 02-02-2015

Another question led me to thinking about the time of year and colder weather we face here in the northern hemisphere. One thing about this time of year is clothing, and in parts of the country, lots

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Squirting is just pee, now what? - 09-01-2015

So the Journal of Sexual Medicine has just published the results after a study on women who squirt. It turns out squirting is just the release of urine. May I add, as many thought. So for you propone

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Seeking greener pastures - 07-01-2015

I kind of felt the answers to the question "Sexy" were to be expected coming from the men on this site, or at least men who are simply looking to hookup. But let's take it a step further because after

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
What does no baggage or drama mean? - 05-01-2015

You read it all the time here, but if the person really said anything about themselves in their profile you can read into it plenty of baggage and drama for them. Seriously, why are they divorced? Why

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Did you lose something? - 26-12-2014

I've been here for a few years now and don't ever recall seeing what I"m about to describe. When I log on to my homepage there are 12 profile pictures of local men. The vast majority are usually faces

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Things change, are you in it for the long haul? - 30-11-2014

One of the recent questions made me start thinking about my time here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez and how I feel I have changed. Initially I hoped I could find someone or more likely someones I could see for short periods

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Games people play - 12-11-2014

A comment on my last question really got me thinking about the wide array of views here and who am I or anyone else to say another is wrong. Of course now and then there are the questions requesting a

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Picture trading, do people really do that? - 11-11-2014

I'm thinking I've been pretty clear about not liking cock shots and the like, but an email this afternoon really got me thinking about the subject. This email wasn't from someone many might think of a

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
Dilema - 29-10-2014

I recently received a message from a man who I have seen in the past. Maybe it is just me reading too much into something but it really came across as hurtful. I like people too much so I now find my

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AnewWoman 65 V
139  vragen
In shock! - 28-09-2014

I would like to believe there is someone out there for everyone. Have you ever seen some hot guy or gal with someone who leaves you wondering what the heck do they see in the other person? Honestly, g

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AnewWoman 65 V
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How to respond to guilt trips? - 26-09-2014

On the topic of messages, what the heck is the deal on laying down a guilt trip after we have declined your advances? They come in all forms, here is a recent one I received: "Oh well. That's okay. I

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Why not email? - 24-09-2014

Don't worry this is not a question about standard members not being able to email, that gets beat to death weekly if not daily.


My question actually pertains to Gold members. Not until t

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Did you know? - 17-09-2014

For those who insist on having no main profile picture, did you know that for both the "Who's online" and "Who's nearby" their is a setting for "members with photo" in the search settings, and this se

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Experience? What the heck is that suppose to mean? - 15-09-2014

As an older woman I see people saying how they like older women such as myself because we have experience. That might be one thing if the saying it are 18 and haven't had many partners, but dang,

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AnewWoman 65 V
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Bandaid fix to see messages - 08-09-2014

I found a bandaid fix so you can see the email from other members. It was showing 3 new emails for me and like the others I could not get the messages to load.
Click on the down arrow for the dro

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AnewWoman 65 V
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When is enough, enough? - 19-08-2014

Seriously now, when someone gets long winded or whatever you call overly script in their questions or responses, do you bother to read it all. I am not disputing the accuracy or relevance of what anyo

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AnewWoman 65 V
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How has Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez been positive for you? - 03-08-2014

As I logged on this evening the total messages received number on the home page caught my eye. An even 7000. I'm sure this is no record as there are far more attractive women here and many in larger m

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How should I reply to "Hi"? - 15-07-2014

Lately I seem to be on a streak of "Hi" emails, not chat, but emails. I would like to know from those who have sent or replied to a "Hi" only email, what are you wanting from the other person? Are you

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How's that line working for you? - 26-06-2014

That is the status line in your profile I'm referring to. Mine says "Let's chat for starters" and seems to accomplish what I'm looking for. By chance I looked at my flirts this morning and the status

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Forget real, the question should be "Really?" - 24-06-2014

Personally I don't care about the b.s. or multiple profilers on this site. Add to that the various definitions of real. For many here, real seems to only mean willing to meet, and I should prob

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Do you handle your sex life like a business? - 22-05-2014

To each their own, but that doesn't stop others from wondering the whys of others. You see it quite often here in the Advice LInes, very cut and dry, as a matter of fact answers to questions others ma

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Would you like to be a fly on the wall? - 26-03-2014

I'm not talking in someones bedroom. What if you could have others sit in on your chat conversations, or heck why not also cam and email, as to allow them to critic your approach or lack there of at a

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How to reply to picture collectors?. - 06-03-2014

The standard members here must be getting together on talking points lately because I keep getting asked the same question over and over. The question is "Can you send pics?"


Seriously,

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Wednesday night dinner - 03-03-2014

I figure if someone can ask about student loans and viruses nobody cares about, why not ask something pertinent to all of us. I'm going out to dinner tomorrow night, but what about Wednesday, any sugg

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How much and when? - 24-02-2014

Info, that is. I was having a chat with someone I found quite interesting the other day. Good profile, nice pics, did not appear to be exaggerating anything about himself, my age, and single. So as ou

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Burning bridges? - 10-02-2014

This question somewhat goes along with my last question on "It's your loss."; but pertains to anything said in the context of emails or chat that might close the door to any possible meeting in the fu

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It's your loss? - 10-02-2014

I would think most of us feel pretty good about who we are, and when it pertains to Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez, our sexual qualities for why someone might desire to be with us. However, as I see it some cross the line from

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So after the long drive, then what? - 27-12-2013

Hopefully the last question about the distance you search for others is still up, because this is a segue from that question.

Okay I'm cheap as far as what I'm willing to put into a meet. As

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What's up with all the deleted AL questions? - 24-12-2013

I'm sure others are seeing questions they recently commented on now being deleted. I just took time to respond to a question and by the time I submitted my response the question was gone. One here and

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Oh no! He was larger, now what? - 23-12-2013

Since the size question seems to be making the rounds again, I thought I would put a little twist on the question for the men.

HOW WOULD YOU REACT IF THE WOMAN YOU ARE WITH SAID TO YOU, "T

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So how many times have you lost your virginity? - 16-12-2013

NT had a funny response in the Heirs question on the Advice Line that got me chuckling. She mentioned how she hopes others find her virginity that she keeps loosing.



Will that got me

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Any luck getting Icebreaker gold back? - 05-12-2013

I've read the community blog and all on the Icebreaker situation so I'm trying to be patient, but seeing that the site continues to send out Icebreaker emails from me when I can't see the guys entire

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Has anyone else noticed? - 19-11-2013

I often pass through the live webcam page to see if I'm missing anything. One thing over the years that tends to catch my eye is the number of cammers in each category; ie., all, men, women, couples.

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Do you handle things differently offline? - 18-11-2013

Having the life I have now has really opened my eyes to new experiences. At an online website like Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez it is pretty much a given that men are going to approach you. I was going to add if you are a wom

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Porn sex vs real sex - 31-10-2013

I recently saw a cute video comparing porn sex versus real sex and of course it made me think of all the hilarious comments I've read here. I'm not going to say the stats are valid, but then again may

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What name to use for your partner? - 27-10-2013

Growing up I had a friend who called his grandparents by their first names. I always thought that was the weirdest thing. Chances are most of us all have nicknames or ways we address others in our liv

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Do you get a little bit jealous? - 22-10-2013

I'm no rocket scientist or mind reader, but sometimes things are so obvious you just have to wonder why they bother.


Sometime ago I use to be bothered by dislike votes, but like many unf

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What do you hope to accomplish with live webcams? - 18-10-2013

I've been known to broadcast my cam from time to time and I guess for those of us who do, it is somewhat rewarding to find yourself as the most viewed cam at any given time. Whether it is for my ego,

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Are you men prepared for old age? - 14-10-2013

An old man, Mr. Wallace, was living in a nursing home. One day he appeared to be very sad and depressed.

Nurse Tracy asked him if there was anything wrong. 'Yes, Nurse Tracy , ' said Mr. Wal

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Stop wasting everyone's time? - 29-06-2013

I received an email today from a young man who wanted to rock my world. I chose to reply to him and told him how his age and location, along with having a FWB I am loyal to, that I am not interested.

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Bikini Etiquette - Does it exist? - 18-06-2013

I'm actually pretty proud of my figure and now that it is summertime I am eager to wear my bikinis. But there are those out there that believe factors like age, figure and location supersede one's des

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What to do so as not to raise unnecessary suspicion? - 30-04-2013

Considering this situation comes up in the advice line every so often, when all of a sudden it is you, where do you go from here?


There are several individuals here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez whom I chat wi

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Where will you be at 70? - 14-02-2013

I was just watching a show on TV and they said 54% of men and women over the age of 70 reported not having sex during the past year. I will assume that anyone who is here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez now would like to thin

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How do you interpret preferences in profiles? - 05-02-2013

Time and time again it comes up here in the AL to be clear in profiles what you are looking for. Sounds straight forward doesn't it? But if it is so straight forward, and you do include specifics in y

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How, or can you, contain sharing your discreet relationship experiences? - 25-01-2013

This is more for those who let's say for whatever reason have discreet relationships with any number of partners. In my case I have an open marriage with the approval to see men, of which I happen to

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What a rush, but why do the comments need to be so crude? - 04-01-2013

I did something yesterday that is rare to say the least for me. I was chatting with a nice guy who was a standard member and I just wanted him to see me so I went on webcam. I then noticed it was broa

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What about those seeking companionship, not sex? - 27-12-2012

This is actually a serious question I hope the regulars here can offer some real input.


Most of you know my personal history, if not, read my profile. I have a friend who is like me, how

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So what is it you are really looking for? - 29-11-2012

We seem to get asked "What are you looking for?" in emails and chat all the time. Likely the person asking is thinking of sexual things such as NSA, FWB, LTR, kinky, blah blah blah. That is not what

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Seriously, can you figure out a woman in one visit? - 08-10-2012

While chatting this morning I got hit with a new approach which really got me thinking. I want intimacy, and I don't see how you can get intimacy with NSA or one night stands. I want some courting, e

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Does masturbation or lack of before sex, help to improve sexual experiences? - 05-10-2012

I would like to know what both the guys and gals feel about masturbation prior to an imminent sexual encounter. Do you find masturbating before the meeting helps prepare you for sex? Or maybe prolong

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IC ........ Am I really suppose to believe that? - 30-09-2012

This morning I was paged on chat by a "Dom LEZ", lol. I'm not into that but thought I would just chat with this person. So it starts off with the usual suspicious "I just moved to your city." She wen

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Where is the cam blocker button? LOL - 09-07-2012

Lately it seems to be a common occurrence when chatting, the guy without asking sends a webcam invite. I usually decline the invite and continue on chatting. If the guy asks why I'm not viewing his c

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Invitation to a threesome - 04-07-2012

A question for the guys but the women can flip the sex labels and also reply.

You meet a gal one evening and have a great time in bed with her. As she is about to leave she tells you she has

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Can you be too picky? - 25-06-2012

While chatting with an individual for the first time, he suggested I was being too picky. This came about after I told him I was looking for intimacy and emotion, not the NSA raw sex as he inquired a

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What about tan lines? - 14-05-2012

Since Willis has everyone focused on going pink, I'm curious to know if the guys have a preference or even notice tan lines on a woman. Personally I have always viewed tan lines like a picture frame.

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We are all here for the same thing. Really? - 17-03-2012

Personally I get tired of hearing guys say we are all here for the same thing, as if that covers everything. I think many are only interested in satisfying their own libido with no interest beyond th

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What was your most misunderstood statement? - 15-03-2012

We've had several questions lately on what people have been saying here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez. One of the problems with communication online is you don't see the inflection in words being used. We often don't know

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Speaking of aggressive, what's up with the aggressive chatters? - 13-03-2012

I've been here 5 months now and really enjoy chatting. I don't know if it has been a long winter for some or what, but lately I have been running into these guys that want to literally tell me what t

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Is big ever too big? - 02-03-2012

Once again another post has prompted me to wonder what others are thinking. So the question about vaginal sex hurting has me thinking of my own issues with how big of guy I can physically handle. M

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Now that we have met, where do we go? - 02-03-2012

Answers to the "Come and get some" question made me wonder where is the best place to go when you decide you are ready to have sex with someone for the first time.


When or do you ever b

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Email Introductions - 16-02-2012

I receive quite a bit of email here at Shemalez.nl - Shemale Dating, Tranny Chat - Shemalez so I make it a point to read all the new ones when I first log in. The contrast between two I received today really caught my eye. One is titled "Love to c

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Are gals really interested in super buff guys? - 10-02-2012

After the last question about being dissatisfied I about gagged on the photo of this super buff guy. I like fit guys as much as anyone else, but geez, I think cuddling with an inflatable doll would b

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Buddy System - 04-02-2012

This is more for the gals but may pertain to guys just as much. Whenever I meet for the first time with someone I met online, I like to meet in a public place. Something else I do is email or txt me

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Post op or female? - 24-01-2012

I happen to be a post op TS. For those who don't know what that means, it means I have had my "sex change" surgery. I say that because I'm amazed how many guys still tell me how they want to suck my

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